I promise clients deeply un-sexy results.
(Wait, what?)
In a world full of dream jobs, ‘quit and do your passion’, and unicorns, etc, I am promising none of that.
What I help clients achieve is incredibly life-changing and yet it looks so mundane to the outside viewer.
And you know why that is? It has nothing to do with them. But it has everything to do with what is actually important to you.
Are you ready to experience just how deeply un-sexy the results are?
Here’s the moment when I jump for joy. A client calmly says the following:
“My boss offered me a new role and I immediately knew it wasn’t for me for xyz reasons.”
“A recruiter called and I explained why the role wasn’t a good fit for me and what I’m actually looking for.”
“I’m accepting the job for these very specific reasons and know that it involves these tradeoffs.”
DING DING DING, jackpot! Do you feel the epic excitement? Are you jumping for joy at their accomplishments??
That’s what it looks like to make a decision with unshakeable confidence.
And just so we’re clear, let’s talk about what’s missing here. The chaos. The waffling. The asking yourself the same question over and over again for 10 years. Getting derailed and distracted by things that don’t matter. The regret. Someone else trying to convince you it’s a great job for you. The second-guessing.
You calmly and confidently make a choice and then move on with your life.
I love when a client does it for the first time because there’s a sense of “hold on, I just made a decision very calmly and easily, am I doing it? This is a weird and new experience...”. I get to acknowledge them and welcome them into my special society of decisions you feel great about. It’s anticlimactic and so deliciously boring. You waste zero of your precious energy and attention on things that don’t fit.
What a deeply un-sexy moment to an external viewer and a deeply moving experience for the person making the decision.